Thursday, February 26, 2009

On the Playground

We had an interesting encounter at the playground today. A boy ran up to Joey saying "I know you!" Joey was very happy to see him, though it took Joey a minute to acknowledge him. Then Joey realized there was also another child from school whom he knew. Joey tried very hard to play with these boys. However, they were playing some kind of make-believe involving swords (maybe Star Wars?) and at some point in the play, probably because Joey couldn't follow what they were doing, they started running away from Joey whenever he approached them (had they decided to make him the villain, perhaps?) Joey became very upset that these boys kept running from him. Finally, as I was trying to intervene and get Joey to calm down, he said, "I don't like them running away from me. It hurts my feelings. I am going to go tell him."

And that is exactly what he did: "Don't run away from me. It makes me feel sad!"

I was so proud of him.

Unfortunately, the boy responded, "You can't tell me what to do!" and ran away. The two boys also kept inviting Joey to play when he gave up and tried to do other things, then running away from him, which I thought was a little odd when he had so clearly told them he didn't like that. I don't know if they meant to be upsetting to him, but I finally packed the boys up and took them home.


little.birdy said...

Sometimes kids can be jerks. I think Joey acted very maturely. He's really come a long way!

Anonymous said...

First of all, I like your blog. Second of all my autistic son today was called smelly when he said goodbye to his pre-school classmate. Ah, the milk of human kindness...Courage, Joey and all Joeys like you...