Abfh has responded to my earlier post about exhaustion, which was a response to another post of hers. Interested in the continuing discussion? Do check it out.
As usual, I don't absolutely agree with everything abfh says, but I think the points are excellent to ponder, and generally good basis for thinking about modern living with special needs. I don't think abfh discounts the realities of raising disabled kids- she does something far more constructive. She offers new ways to think about how we are thinking about our kids and about our neighbors.
I will probably be writing more on this, as I process new ideas and connect them with my own family and experience. Never fear.